Life { Faith } Tea

and ramblings on everything in between

You Aren’t Your Accessories

13123112_s

How many of you out there spend way too much time wondering what others think of your clothes, your face, your hair? My hand’s raised high, in case you can’t see it.

No matter how much or how little time I spend getting ready, I look the exact same very day. Yet I still wonder what others are seeing day in and day out.

I recently played a new baby shower game – grateful it didn’t include diapers and remnants of candy bars. We were in the room with the mom-to-be for about an hour before she quietly slipped out. We were then handed a plethora of questions about her appearance that particular day.

How was her hair styled?

Did she wear a necklace? What color was it?

Were her nails painted?

Did she have on eye shadow?

Was she wearing sandals or heels?

Did her shirt have buttons?

The list went on and on, to which most of us couldn’t answer correctly. A friend finally exclaimed,

“This exercise makes me realize how little attention people pay me!”

The person in question was the center of attention that day – we gave her hugs, berated her with questions about the baby room, and watched her open gifts! And we still had no clue if her nails were painted or if she had on earrings.

Details are fun – details make us feel pretty – but they often don’t change how others perceive us.

This game now comes to mind when I’m staring into the mirror too long, fretting over my hair for the third time, and feeling self-conscious in my old jeans and shirt. None of it matters. None of this is what I want others to remember about me.

I want others to hear my words and see my smile and observe my actions and notice my moods. Those things speak louder than the items that adorn me anyway. Yet I’m always tempted to spend more time worrying about the accessories than I am the real things that make me me.

Typical.

Advertisements

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s

Information

This entry was posted on April 15, 2016 by in Life, Life Lessons and tagged , , , , .

What’s that she said?

Categories

Enter your email address to follow this blog and receive notifications of new posts by email.

%d bloggers like this: